Do your clothes reflect your TRUE style?

If someone looked through your closet would they get a good glimpse of your TRUE style?

I'm asking you this question because in the past 24 hours I have had four different conversations with women who feel that their clothes don't really reflect the styles that they love. Some of it is that they don't know how to put the ensemble together after the basics have been purchased, but I would say the majority of people find themselves buying things that continue to miss the mark.

Why is this? Well, I think the majority of us appreciate the melting pot of trends and styles the world has to offer, and we all wish we could be bohemian one day, preppy the next and high fashion on Friday nights. There's nothing wrong with that, but I'm sure most of our pocket books don't give us the flexibility to be and wear all things. So...that's how we end up with closets that are a little bit of everything, but mostly of nothing that truly reflects your style, your inspiration and your personality.

How do you stop this? When you flip though magazines and scroll through blogs save the images that truly make your heart go pitter patter. After about twenty or even ten, you'll start seeing common threads. Your eye may go to certain colors, a-line skirts, cardigans, jeans, etc. THEN...grab five photos and take them with you shopping. Only buy things that match the photos. Then you'll start being able to create looks you truly love.

All of us have our own style and you can appreciate everyone's style, but the dissatisfaction comes when you try to be every other thing than yourself. And you know what? I need to take my own advice!

What is MY style? I'm an all-american girl to the core. Gingham and plaid has been in my blood for years, and will be until I die. My eyes and hands go directly to it, but do my clothes reflect that? No. Guess I better fix that, huh? ;)

What about you?

Menswear Monday: Pink & Purple

Since we were first born it has been ingrained in us that pink and purple are for girls and blue and green are for boys. Well, I know plenty of girls that enjoy wearing blue and green, and I have never run into a guy that has an issue with it. However, it seems that plenty of guys and even some of the ladies out there still are a little iffy about guys wearing pink and purple.

People, seriously?! I love pink and purple on men. Who knows...It could be YOUR color. Here are some examples of men rockin' the colors. Next time you are in a store, please try it. If you still are unsure of how you look in the color ask a sales person for their unbiased opinion.

Jennifer Paige Designs Giveaway

Okay friends, it's time for another fantastical giveaway, and THREE people can win!!! Jennifer Boonlorn has become a wonderful acquaintance of mine. We initially connected through the blogosphere but have since met, and I feel like I have known her forever. She is a graduate of the dreamy Parsons School of Design and has worked at Oscar de la Renta AND Women's Wear Daily. Her designs have been feature on The Today Show and in the New York Post (click here for an extensive bio). Jennifer has come back to the Valley of the Sun to further her company Jennifer Paige Designs, and to me close to her family after a tragic loss (click here to read the story).

So, what does she create?

Beautiful unique hair accessories! Jennifer is a big fan of Gossip Girl, as am I, and Blair Waldorf is her poster child. "Headware and accessories for the posh prepster," is her tag line. I love it because that is Blair in a nutshell - posh and preppy. Click here to see her whole collection.

Jennifer has graciously donated THREE hair accessories for this blog giveaway.

1. The "Posh Headband."

2. The "If Only I Could Be Blair" headband

3. The key barrette

To enter the giveaway, you can do one or all four of the following:  become a fan of Jennifer Paige Designs on Facebook, follow Jennifer on Twitter, subscribe to her blog and leave a comment on a post saying that it's for the contest, and/or visit her website and email her saying which headband is your favorite.

Anyone living in the continental U.S.A. is eligible.  This contest closes on Wednesday, July 28th.